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Love on Campus

 

Why we should understand, and even encourage,
a certain sort of erotic intensity between
student and professor

By William Deresiewicz 

A professor is walking across campus one afternoon when he spots a student coming the other way. “Excuse me, young man,” the professor says, “am I walking north or south?” “You’re walking north, professor,” the student replies. “In that case,” the professor says, “I must have eaten lunch already.” 

This is not a joke anyone would think to make up these days. The absentminded professor, that kindly old figure, is long gone. A new image has taken his place, one that bespeaks not only our culture’s hostility to the mind, but also its desperate confusion about the nature of love

Look at recent movies about academics, and a remarkably consistent pattern emerges. InThe Squid and the Whale (2005), Jeff Daniels plays an English professor and failed writer who sleeps with his students, neglects his wife, and bullies his children. In One True Thing(1998), William Hurt plays an English professor and failed writer who sleeps with his students, neglects his wife, and bullies his children. In Wonder Boys (2000), Michael Douglas plays an English professor and failed writer who sleeps with his students, has just been left by his third wife, and can’t commit to the child he’s conceived in an adulterous affair with his chancellor. Daniels’s character is vain, selfish, resentful, and immature. Hurt’s is vain, selfish, pompous, and self-pitying. Douglas’s is vain, selfish, resentful, and self-pitying. Hurt’s character drinks. Douglas’s drinks, smokes pot, and takes pills. All three men measure themselves against successful writers (two of them, in Douglas’s case; his own wife, in Daniels’s) whose presence diminishes them further. In We Don’t Live Here Anymore(2004), Mark Ruffalo and Peter Krause divide the central role: both are English professors, and both neglect and cheat on their wives, but Krause plays the arrogant, priapic writer who seduces his students, Ruffalo the passive, self-pitying failure. A Love Song For Bobby Long(2004) divides the stereotype a different way, with John Travolta as the washed-up, alcoholic English professor, Gabriel Macht as the blocked, alcoholic writer. 

Not that these figures always teach English. Kevin Spacey plays a philosophy professor — broken, bitter, dissolute — in The Life of David Gale (2003). Steve Carell plays a self-loathing, suicidal Proust scholar in Little Miss Sunshine (2006). Both characters fall for graduate students, with disastrous results. And while the stereotype has gained a new prominence of late, its roots go back at least a few decades. Many of its elements are in place in Oleanna (1994), in Surviving Desire (1991), and, with John Mahoney’s burnt-out communications professor, in Moonstruck (1987). In fact, all of its elements are in place inTerms of Endearment (1983), where Jeff Daniels took his first turn playing a feckless, philandering English professor. And of course, almost two decades before that, there wasWho’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?  Read the rest of this entry »

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It is NO surprise that I am a huge fan of The Rachel Maddow Show!  And, quite frankly, Rachel IS the smartest person on TV!!  Read the article in Advocate.  If you don’t pick up the Advocate, then perhaps read it here.

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I receive Alternet Headlines everyday and twitter them faithfully.  I found yesterday’s particularly interesting and thought I’d post the whole of the headlines here!!  I hope you enjoy them!
Officials: Obama Offered Clinton Secretary Of State Position
Officials: Obama Offered Clinton Secretary Of State Position
By Nico Pitney, Huffington Post
Hillary requested time to consider the offer, officials said. Read more »
 
Obama and McCain to Meet in Chicago ... What's on the Table?
Obama and McCain to Meet in Chicago … What’s on the Table?
By Steve Benen, Washington Monthly
I suppose, given the circumstances, cabinet speculation is inevitable … but I really doubt that’s what Obama is thinking. Read more »

Obama to Give Up Senate Seat on Sunday ... Who Will Fill It?

Obama to Give Up Senate Seat on Sunday … Who Will Fill It?
By Steve Benen, Washington Monthly
It seems strange, but technically, Barack Obama and Joe Biden are still a sitting senators. Read more »

Secretary Of State: Would Hillary Want The Job?

Secretary Of State: Would Hillary Want The Job?
By Seth Colter Walls, Huffington Post
Clinton insiders weigh in on whether or not the Secretary of State position would be good for Hillary’s career. Read more »
 
Larry Summers Out as Obama's Treasury Pick?

Larry Summers Out as Obama’s Treasury Pick?
By Matt Stoller, Open Left
Victoria McGrane and Lisa Lerer from the Politico are reporting that Larry Summers is on the outs with Obama’s transition team. Read more »
 
Excellent Maddow Piece Spells Out Why Lieberman Must Be Stripped of His Chairmanship

Excellent Maddow Piece Spells Out Why Lieberman Must Be Stripped of His Chairmanship
By David Sirota, Open Left
Maddow took all the arguments against Joe and summed them up in a really great piece last night. Read more »

 Now Is No Time to Sing Kumbaya: We Must Hold the Bush Regime Accountable

Now Is No Time to Sing Kumbaya: We Must Hold the Bush Regime Accountable 
By Ian Welsh, Firedoglake
We cannot just ignore Bush’s crimes and incompetence because Obama got elected. Read more »

Jon Stewart Mocks Bill O'Reilly for Unfounded Obama Fears

Jon Stewart Mocks Bill O’Reilly for Unfounded Obama Fears
By Staff, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart
From Thursday night’s Daily Show. Read more »

 

The Best Source of Patriotism Since Fox News: Joe the Website

The Best Source of Patriotism Since Fox News: Joe the Website
By Jill Filipovic, Feministe
That’s right, Joe’s got a website. Read more »


Michael Moore Takes on the EconomyMichael Moore Takes on the Economy
By Faiz Shakir, Think Progress  
Michael Moore’s new documentary will tackle the financial crisis. Read more »

 

Join the National Day of Protest Against Prop 8

Join the National Day of Protest Against Prop 8
By ZP Heller, Brave New Films
Find out where your local protest will gather. Read more »

Leahy First Democratic Senator to Go On Record Against LiebermanLeahy First Democratic Senator to Go On Record Against Lieberman

By Amanda Terkel, Think Progress
“I’m one who does not feel that somebody should be rewarded with a major chairmanship after doing what he did.” Read more »

Former G&R Guitarist Slash Shreds in Support of Gay Marriage

Former G&R Guitarist Slash Shreds in Support of Gay Marriage
By Lisa Derrick, Firedoglake
Guitarist Slash and his wife Perla Ferrar send out this message in support of marriage rights. Read more »

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So, here is a helpful and corrective article written by one a more thoughtful musicians.  Read on…

BS Bottom - Etheridge Prop 8Singer Melissa Etheridge rails against the passage of the gay-marriage ban in California-and she won’t be paying the state a dime.

Okay. So Prop 8 passed. Alright, I get it. 51% of you think that I am a second class citizen. Alright then. So my wife, uh I mean, roommate? Girlfriend? Special lady friend? You are gonna have to help me here because I am not sure what to call her now. Anyways, she and I are not allowed the same right under the state constitution as any other citizen. Okay, so I am taking that to mean I do not have to pay my state taxes because I am not a full citizen. I mean that would just be wrong, to make someone pay taxes and not give them the same rights, sounds sort of like that taxation without representation thing from the history books.

Okay, cool I don’t mean to get too personal here but there is a lot I can do with the extra half a million dollars that I will be keeping instead of handing it over to the state of California. Oh, and I am sure Ellen will be a little excited to keep her bazillion bucks that she pays in taxes too. Wow, come to think of it, there are quite a few of us fortunate gay folks that will be having some extra cash this year. What recession? We’re gay! I am sure there will be a little box on the tax forms now single, married, divorced, gay, check here if you are gay, yeah, that’s not so bad. Of course all of the waiters and hairdressers and UPS workers and gym teachers and such, they won’t have to pay their taxes either.

Gay people are born everyday. You will never legislate that away.

Oh and too bad California, I know you were looking forward to the revenue from all of those extra marriages. I guess you will have to find some other way to get out of the budget trouble you are in.

…Really?

When did it become okay to legislate morality? I try to envision someone reading that legislation “eliminates the right” and then clicking yes. What goes through their mind? Was it the frightening commercial where the little girl comes home and says, “Hi mom, we learned about gays in class today” and then the mother gets that awful worried look and the scary music plays? Do they not know anyone who is gay? If they do, can they look them in the face and say “I believe you do not deserve the same rights as me”? Do they think that their children will never encounter a gay person? Do they think they will never have to explain the 20% of us who are gay and living and working side by side with all the citizens of California?

I got news for them, someday your child is going to come home and ask you what a gay person is. Gay people are born everyday. You will never legislate that away.

I know when I grew up gay was a bad word. Homo, lezzie, faggot, dyke. Ignorance and fear ruled the day. There were so many “thems” back then. The blacks, the poor … you know, “them”. Then there was the immigrants. “Them.” Now the them is me.

I tell myself to take a breath, okay take another one, one of the thems made it to the top. Obama has been elected president. This crazy fearful insanity will end soon. This great state and this great country of ours will finally come to the understanding that there is no “them”. We are one. We are united. What you do to someone else you do to yourself. That “judge not, lest ye yourself be judged” are truthful words and not Christian rhetoric.

Today the gay citizenry of this state will pick themselves up and dust themselves off and do what we have been doing for years. We will get back into it. We love this state, we love this country and we are not going to leave it. Even though we could be married in Mass. or Conn, Canada, Holland, Spain and a handful of other countries, this is our home. This is where we work and play and raise our families. We will not rest until we have the full rights of any other citizen. It is that simple, no fearful vote will ever stop us, that is not the American way.

Come to think of it, I should get a federal tax break too…

Melissa Etheridge is an Academy Award-winning and Grammy Award-winning singer-songwriter.


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Remember women this Veterans’ Day [from the chicago foundation for women's Tuesday Blast]
Because today is Veterans’ Day, we are asking Tuesday Blast readers to remember and honor the untold stories ofU.S. servicewomen from Iraq and Afghanistan-15 percent of whom experienced gender-two blank military "dog tag" ID tagsbased violence while serving, the American Public Health Association found. The study examined data from 100,000 patients at Veterans’ Administration facilities over a six-year period. It is the first research study to provide conclusive evidence that “sexual trauma”-including rape, harassment and threats of sexual violence-can make diagnoses of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and other illnesses three times more likely, the Washington Post reports. (Other studies show that most perpetrators of this violence are fellow servicemen.) As one researcher says, veterans deserve “gender-informed and gender-specific health care to help combat the stigma associated with rape and sexual harassment,” according to Ms. magazine. Even as we help survivors, we must also focus on prevention strategies: Military officials at every level should set a zero-tolerance tone as well as create formal policies that deter violence against women.

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Having worked with survivors of sexual assault and now working with victims of violent crimes, all of whom are applying for compensation, I have seen how the system marginalizes these victims.  Here is an article from AlterNet which talks about how “our” system does NOT provide access to women who are sexually assaulted while in the military.  Please Read.

AlterNet

Raped in the Military? You May Have to Pay for Your Own Forensic Exam Kit

By Penny Coleman, AlterNet
Posted on November 11, 2008, Printed on November 11, 2008
http://www.alternet.org/story/106307/

Editor’s note: a correction was made to this story since publication. The uncorrected version stated incorrectly that the military doesn’t cover forensic exam kits for the 20 percent of rape victims treated on military bases.

Sarah Palin’s decision not to pay for rape kits when she was mayor of Walsilla was an issue in the campaign for the White House. But allow me to introduce the large pink elephant that has been sitting quietly in the corner of the room:

At the Winter Soldier Investigation in March, Spec. Patricia McCann, who served in Iraq with the Illinois Army National Guard from 2003-4, read a memo issued to all MEDCOM commanders clarifying that “SAD kits”– which are forensic rape kits–”are not included in TRICARE coverage.” *

TRICARE, the United States Department of Defense Military Health System that covers active duty members, will only pay for rape kits if the victim is seen in a military or a VA facility.

But the Pentagon acknowledges that 80 percent of military rapes are never reported. And that 80 percent who go off-base to protect their anonymity (and/or their careers) are on their own. If a soldier is on leave, or is five-hours from the nearest VA, or if a soldier is simply delivered to the nearest hospital by the local ambulance driver, their rape kits are not covered under TRICARE. Neither are other forensic exams that might be used in domestic violence situations.

Front-line treatment shouldn’t be conditional on where a rape occurs or where the nearest treatment is available. This is not only a parity issue, but a further obstacle to treatment and justice.

Women in the military are twice as likely to be raped as their civilian counterparts. In fact, “women serving in the U.S. military today are more likely to be raped by a fellow soldier than killed by enemy fire in Iraq,” Congresswoman Jane Harman, D-Calif., told the House Subcommittee on National Security and Foreign Affairs in May.

Harman said, “The scope of the problem was brought into acute focus for me during a visit to the West Los Angeles VA Health Center where I met female veterans and their doctors. My jaw dropped when the doctors told me that 41 percent of the female veterans seen there say they were victims of sexual assault while serving in the military, and 29 percent said they were raped during their military service.”

In July, a House Oversight and Government Reform subcommittee hearing subpoenaed Kaye Whitley, director of the Pentagon’s Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Office (SAPRO), to explain what the department is doing to stop the escalating sexual violence in the military. Her boss, Secretary of Defense Robert M. Gates, ordered her not to appear.

Whitley was finally made available to the committee on Sept. 10, but only after having been threatened with a contempt citation.

Whitley first informed the committee that the DoD was conducting a “crusade against sexual assault.”

She then sought to reassure the committee with an accounting of all the heroic measures the Pentagon is planning to implement in the very near future.

But finally, she had to admit that in 2007 there were 2,688 sexual assaults in the military, including 1,259 reports of rape. Just 8 percent (181) of those cases were referred to courts martial, compared to a civilian prosecution rate of 40 percent. And almost half of those cases were dismissed without investigation. (And I say Whitley “had to admit” the number of cases because in 2004, Congress woke up to the fact that the DoD was blowing off the issue and required the military to make yearly reports on all matters relating to sexual assault in the Armed Forces. But those reports did not indicate either prioritizing or progress — hence the hearings.)

Rep. John Tierney, D-Mass., asked the committee if anyone thought that “ordering its employees to ignore subpoenas to discuss the topic” sounded as if DoD was taking any of this seriously. “Let me be very clear. Preventing and responding to sexual assault perpetrated against our soldiers is simply much too important to be playing a game of cat and mouse.” He later told Stars and Stripes that there are only seven people on Whitley’s staff to devise and implement the military’s sexual assault program for the entire military. That number speaks for itself.

This is not news. As far back as 1995, Reuters reported that “Ninety percent of women under 50 who have served in the U.S. military and who responded to a survey report being victims of sexual harassment, and nearly one-third of the respondents of all ages say they have been raped.”

Furthermore, the Pentagon acknowledges that 80 percent of military rapes are not reported in the first place, suggesting that the actual number, if it were known, would be astronomical.

Cat-and-mouse games may sound like kid stuff, but refusing to pay for a rape kit is anything but. It implies that the victim is to blame. It does not encourage victims to come forward. And it makes it far more likely that soldiers will interpret the permissive climate as institutionally sanctioned misogyny.

In her Winter Soldier testimony, McCann noted, “The assistant secretary of defense is soliciting legislative changes to TRICARE benefits which will include these kits within covered TRICARE supplies.”

I have been in touch with the office of the assistant secretary, S. Ward Casscells, M.D. It seems that he has indeed solicited such legislation, and it is due to go into effect in December as an amendment to the John Warner National Defense Authorization Act for fiscal year 2007. The amendment contains some “background” that is worth sharing.

Currently, forensic examinations are not covered for beneficiaries in civilian health care facilities through TRICARE medical plans because TRICARE “may cost share only medically or psychologically necessary services or supplies. Forensic examinations are not conducted for medical treatment purposes, but for the preservation of evidence in any future criminal investigation and/or prosecution.”

The decision to treat rape kits as purely evidentiary, ignoring the very real medical and psychological benefits to the victim, is reprehensibly primitive thinking. Making sure that those legislative changes happen as planned would be a long overdue step out of the primal ooze that has slimed our military in the eyes of our citizens and the world.

Speaking to Palin’s decision not to pay for rape kits, the former governor of Alaska, Tony Knowles, was quoted in Palin’s hometown paper, the Frontiersman, as saying, “We would never bill the victim of a burglary for fingerprinting and photographing the crime scene, or for the cost of gathering other evidence. Nor should we bill rape victims just because the crime scene happens to be their bodies.”

When Barack Obama decides who he will appoint to head the Department of Veterans Affairs in his administration, he should consider appointing someone who also understands how important it is that women’s bodies, souls, dignity and health be taken seriously. Tammy Duckworth, who is reported to be at the top of his list, certainly has had personal experience with a health care delivery system she has called “a little bit arcane.”

Duckworth is now director of the Illinois Department of Veterans Affairs, but in 2004, she was a Blackhawk helicopter pilot in Iraq and lost both of her legs in a crash. She describes the care she received at Walter Reed Army Medical Center as “excellent,” but adds, “the comfort package I received contained men’s Jockey shorts, and the local VA hospital carried Viagra but not my birth control.”

There are currently about 1.7 million female veterans in the United States, and the Department of Defense estimates that there are about 200,000 women, 15 percent of the military, on active duty. Thirty-nine percent of those women return from Iraq or Afghanistan with mental health issues, and, for more than a third who seek VA health care, the precipitating trauma was a sexual assault.

Every VA center now screens both men and women for sexual trauma. That is an improvement. Still, Duckworth says, “I don’t think the VA mental health care system is ready for (female veterans).” It would be encouraging to see a VA director who has some understanding of how important that is to fix.

*The overwhelming indictment of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan — and the heartbreaking devastation they have wrought on the souls of young American soldiers — are now the subject of an invaluable book edited by Aaron Glantz and issued by Haymarket Books.

Penny Coleman is the widow of a Vietnam veteran who took his own life after coming home. Her latest book, Flashback: Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, Suicide and the Lessons of War, was released on Memorial Day 2006. Her Web site is Flashback.

© 2008 Independent Media Institute. All rights reserved.
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