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Love on Campus

 

Why we should understand, and even encourage,
a certain sort of erotic intensity between
student and professor

By William Deresiewicz 

A professor is walking across campus one afternoon when he spots a student coming the other way. “Excuse me, young man,” the professor says, “am I walking north or south?” “You’re walking north, professor,” the student replies. “In that case,” the professor says, “I must have eaten lunch already.” 

This is not a joke anyone would think to make up these days. The absentminded professor, that kindly old figure, is long gone. A new image has taken his place, one that bespeaks not only our culture’s hostility to the mind, but also its desperate confusion about the nature of love

Look at recent movies about academics, and a remarkably consistent pattern emerges. InThe Squid and the Whale (2005), Jeff Daniels plays an English professor and failed writer who sleeps with his students, neglects his wife, and bullies his children. In One True Thing(1998), William Hurt plays an English professor and failed writer who sleeps with his students, neglects his wife, and bullies his children. In Wonder Boys (2000), Michael Douglas plays an English professor and failed writer who sleeps with his students, has just been left by his third wife, and can’t commit to the child he’s conceived in an adulterous affair with his chancellor. Daniels’s character is vain, selfish, resentful, and immature. Hurt’s is vain, selfish, pompous, and self-pitying. Douglas’s is vain, selfish, resentful, and self-pitying. Hurt’s character drinks. Douglas’s drinks, smokes pot, and takes pills. All three men measure themselves against successful writers (two of them, in Douglas’s case; his own wife, in Daniels’s) whose presence diminishes them further. In We Don’t Live Here Anymore(2004), Mark Ruffalo and Peter Krause divide the central role: both are English professors, and both neglect and cheat on their wives, but Krause plays the arrogant, priapic writer who seduces his students, Ruffalo the passive, self-pitying failure. A Love Song For Bobby Long(2004) divides the stereotype a different way, with John Travolta as the washed-up, alcoholic English professor, Gabriel Macht as the blocked, alcoholic writer. 

Not that these figures always teach English. Kevin Spacey plays a philosophy professor — broken, bitter, dissolute — in The Life of David Gale (2003). Steve Carell plays a self-loathing, suicidal Proust scholar in Little Miss Sunshine (2006). Both characters fall for graduate students, with disastrous results. And while the stereotype has gained a new prominence of late, its roots go back at least a few decades. Many of its elements are in place in Oleanna (1994), in Surviving Desire (1991), and, with John Mahoney’s burnt-out communications professor, in Moonstruck (1987). In fact, all of its elements are in place inTerms of Endearment (1983), where Jeff Daniels took his first turn playing a feckless, philandering English professor. And of course, almost two decades before that, there wasWho’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?  Read the rest of this entry »

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Cutting Hair, While Cutting to the Chase on Clients’ Domestic Abuse

Working w/ Crime Victims, I’m very impressed with this article from the NYT.  I’ve only posted a portion of it and then posted the link where you can find the remainder of the article!  Its a MUST read!  -iRobyn 
Suzanne DeChillo/The New York Times

Divas Unisex Hair Salon in Inwood is one beauty shop where stylists are being trained to recognize signs of domestic abuse.

By LESLIE KAUFMAN

 Published: November 19, 2008

Martha Castillo knew her client had a problem because their weekly hair-straightening sessions were always interrupted by phone calls from a boyfriend angrily accusing her of being with another man. Magda Florentino noticed cigarette burns on a woman’s temples when she pulled back her hair for washing — and did not buy the explanation that it had happened accidentally while bartending.
And Candida Vasquez received a hysterical call from a customer soon after she had spent three hours knitting extensions into the woman’s hair. Her boyfriend hated the look, and in a fit of rage he had cut off not only the extensions, but also the rest of her hair.

Ms. Vasquez said she was not surprised by the call. Troubled clients tell her their personal stories all the time. “They are so tormented, they just come in and share,” she said.

The privileged, often therapeutic relationship between hairdressers and clients has long been the subject of magazine articles and movies. A growing movement in New York and across the nation tries to harness that bond to identify and prevent domestic violence, a pervasive problem that victims are often too ashamed to reveal to law enforcement or other public officials.

Ms. Vasquez, Ms. Castillo and Ms. Florentino are all stylists in Manhattan who have been trained (or are being trained) as part of a one-year-old program by the city’s Administration for Children’s Services in beauty salons in the Washington Heights area, where a high number of cases of abuse and neglect in homes have a component of violence that is not necessarily aimed at children. The initiative joins similar efforts that have been sprouting across the nation; perhaps the best known, called Cut It Out and based in Chicago, has trained 40,000 salon professionals in all 50 states to recognize telltale signs of domestic abuse. In the past few months, the Cut It Out program was also adopted by the Empire Education Group, which has 87 cosmetology schools, and endorsed by the American Association of Cosmetology Schools, the trade organization representing another 800 schools.

Nearly 600,000 women and girls were victims of violence by an intimate partner in 2006, according to the Bureau of Justice Statistics. In New York last year, the police received hundreds of domestic disturbance calls every day and recorded about 55,000 crimes connected to domestic violence — everything from stalkings to killings.

Neither the city’s program or the much larger Cut It Out, founded in 2002, tracks how many women they have referred for help, so it is hard to assess the effectiveness. But law enforcement officials in New York and nationally have praised the beauty-shop approach for reaching a population that normally hides from authorities.

Kathy Ryan, chief of the Domestic Violence Unit of the New York Police Department, said that battered women were such a hard population to reach that “preventing even one death should be considered success.”

The police have tried doing outreach to victims by, among other things, setting up domestic violence education tables at community events, only to find that no one wants to be seen near them. But the atmosphere is different in the safety of a beauty salon.

“The salon may be one of the few places women might be without their abuser around,” said Laurie Magid, a former state prosecutor who is acting United States attorney for the Eastern District of Pennsylvania. “This program really addresses a need. You don’t have a case unless you have a crime reported in the first place and that is the difficult area of domestic violence.”

While Cut it Out trains stylists offsite, the Washington Heights workshops, conducted in Spanish, take place inside beauty parlors during the hours that clients are served, which not only makes it easier for people to participate, but also enhances the comfort factor.

“The salon is a place where everyone already feels at home,” said Sharon Kagawa of the Administration for Children’s Services, the agency that recruits salons for the program. “So they can be more honest.”

The Washington Heights program started in 2007, when a woman walked into Porto Pelo Unisex salon, just north of the George Washington Bridge, and unashamedly began telling everyone in shouting distance her marital saga.

She told of how her children had been removed from her home by the city because her husband beat them and her, but said she could not leave him because she feared deportation. As she wept, stylists and customers gathered around to offer comfort, but they had little advice on how to get help.

But Ingrid Dominguez, the director of the child welfare agency’s Washington Heights Family Preservation Program, who happened to be getting her hair done at Porto Pelo that day, knew where to get help. She knew all about nearby therapy and community resources, and knew all about violence in the home. She estimated that domestic violence was the root cause of about 95 percent of the hundreds of cases that crossed her desk each year, some as seemingly simple as student absenteeism.

For page 2 of the article, please go to the NYT, directly.  Click here.  The link takes you to the article’s 2nd page!

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It is NO surprise that I am a huge fan of The Rachel Maddow Show!  And, quite frankly, Rachel IS the smartest person on TV!!  Read the article in Advocate.  If you don’t pick up the Advocate, then perhaps read it here.

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Here’s a You Tube video regarding Chicago’s March/Protest regarding the Yes Vote on California’s Prop 8.  many cities had marches/protests, and I’m grateful that my city participated in a march/protest.  This is a little move of injustice given the returns of the election.

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I receive Alternet Headlines everyday and twitter them faithfully.  I found yesterday’s particularly interesting and thought I’d post the whole of the headlines here!!  I hope you enjoy them!
Officials: Obama Offered Clinton Secretary Of State Position
Officials: Obama Offered Clinton Secretary Of State Position
By Nico Pitney, Huffington Post
Hillary requested time to consider the offer, officials said. Read more »
 
Obama and McCain to Meet in Chicago ... What's on the Table?
Obama and McCain to Meet in Chicago … What’s on the Table?
By Steve Benen, Washington Monthly
I suppose, given the circumstances, cabinet speculation is inevitable … but I really doubt that’s what Obama is thinking. Read more »

Obama to Give Up Senate Seat on Sunday ... Who Will Fill It?

Obama to Give Up Senate Seat on Sunday … Who Will Fill It?
By Steve Benen, Washington Monthly
It seems strange, but technically, Barack Obama and Joe Biden are still a sitting senators. Read more »

Secretary Of State: Would Hillary Want The Job?

Secretary Of State: Would Hillary Want The Job?
By Seth Colter Walls, Huffington Post
Clinton insiders weigh in on whether or not the Secretary of State position would be good for Hillary’s career. Read more »
 
Larry Summers Out as Obama's Treasury Pick?

Larry Summers Out as Obama’s Treasury Pick?
By Matt Stoller, Open Left
Victoria McGrane and Lisa Lerer from the Politico are reporting that Larry Summers is on the outs with Obama’s transition team. Read more »
 
Excellent Maddow Piece Spells Out Why Lieberman Must Be Stripped of His Chairmanship

Excellent Maddow Piece Spells Out Why Lieberman Must Be Stripped of His Chairmanship
By David Sirota, Open Left
Maddow took all the arguments against Joe and summed them up in a really great piece last night. Read more »

 Now Is No Time to Sing Kumbaya: We Must Hold the Bush Regime Accountable

Now Is No Time to Sing Kumbaya: We Must Hold the Bush Regime Accountable 
By Ian Welsh, Firedoglake
We cannot just ignore Bush’s crimes and incompetence because Obama got elected. Read more »

Jon Stewart Mocks Bill O'Reilly for Unfounded Obama Fears

Jon Stewart Mocks Bill O’Reilly for Unfounded Obama Fears
By Staff, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart
From Thursday night’s Daily Show. Read more »

 

The Best Source of Patriotism Since Fox News: Joe the Website

The Best Source of Patriotism Since Fox News: Joe the Website
By Jill Filipovic, Feministe
That’s right, Joe’s got a website. Read more »


Michael Moore Takes on the EconomyMichael Moore Takes on the Economy
By Faiz Shakir, Think Progress  
Michael Moore’s new documentary will tackle the financial crisis. Read more »

 

Join the National Day of Protest Against Prop 8

Join the National Day of Protest Against Prop 8
By ZP Heller, Brave New Films
Find out where your local protest will gather. Read more »

Leahy First Democratic Senator to Go On Record Against LiebermanLeahy First Democratic Senator to Go On Record Against Lieberman

By Amanda Terkel, Think Progress
“I’m one who does not feel that somebody should be rewarded with a major chairmanship after doing what he did.” Read more »

Former G&R Guitarist Slash Shreds in Support of Gay Marriage

Former G&R Guitarist Slash Shreds in Support of Gay Marriage
By Lisa Derrick, Firedoglake
Guitarist Slash and his wife Perla Ferrar send out this message in support of marriage rights. Read more »

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A Great AlterNet Article & must read!
Our Economy May be in a Death Spiral -- Will Washington Stop the Bleeding?Our Economy May be in a Death Spiral — Will Washington Stop the Bleeding?
By Joshua Holland, AlterNet
The Bush-Paulson plan isn’t doing anything to address the underlying problems threatening America’s economic future. Read more »

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